Saturday, October 2, 2010

Prison or Freedom- Hair Heaven or Hell...



So its been almost two years and I have not had any chemicals I feel so liberated! As well as the burning desire to trim my ends.

I know I know, many say yes and others think no! But am the one that has to deal with my hair haha!!!
Ok it's not so bad, but I want to wear my hair out I feel imprisoned a bit my this transition lol; by my own Hair..

Yes am suppose to just speak of roses are red and violets are blue and my hair is perfect.. But that's not the truth..
Yes we can mentally trap ourselves. Am at the point where I want to take my processed ends and like a bad marriage walk away! Ummmm no run far far away. Lol ok but seriously it's a process.

Keep you posted! Anaiyah...

Tuesday, April 6, 2010

Sunday, March 28, 2010

Transition 101 and my Personal update


What is Transitioning:

Transitioning

is the process of growing out your natural hair while your hair mainly the shaft and ends are chemically processed. The roots will be your natural hair at this point you have made a decision NOT to “touch-up” anymore.

The difference between Transitioning and Stretching:

Transitioning is not ever going back for a touch up. While Stretching is not touching up for a while but then finally adding chemicals to the “new growth”.

my Personal update & thoughts:

Where am I personally on my transition journey: February 2009 was the last time I had a texturizer touch –up. It has been a long year for me in terms of working with both textures. Trying to find a way to wear my hair so it would not affect my daily routine. Mentally and emotionally I felt like I was ready to walk away from the chemicals. However, half way through this process like in August 2009, I began to grow frustration, resentment that I ever added chemicals. I think my mind began to play games. I had to separate myself from everyone and tell myself I was going to do this.. no matter what, I was not turning back, no matter what..

I happy to say I got over that battle.. I found that having my hair blow dried, flat ironed and keeping it straight for as long as I can..really helped me..

Products I use:

I am into the Raw Oils: -

Grape-seed oil - * my favorite right now- a very light oil

Coconut oil- * Love the smell- the one I use is 100% organic- www.mamasorganics.com

Lavender Jamaican Black Castor Oil- Awesome scalp oil

Hair Lotion- this adds a bit of softness, especially to the natural hair..


Mental and Emotional side of things:

Personally I think this is the roughest side to growing out your natural hair. Is the thoughts that run through your mind while you’re in this process. The images we are bombarded with in the media of what Beauty is.. You begin question yourself, your ethnicity, you begin to see how "black" you really are.. lol sad but True.. You are now forced to claim your identity... not so easy..

You begin to ask.. I'm I still beautiful? Wow, how do I take care of my hair? It’s so thick..

You begin to feel frustrated, annoyed and eventually you may give up and put the chemical back onto your “new growth”. Then you get.."Edward Scissors hand" and feel like chopping off the chemically treated portion- prematurely..
Really you just want to be freed.. It's an Amazing transformation of Self..

A few tips to follow is:-

Know to your self – You are BEAUTIFUL no matter what your hair looks like..

Your hair should not DEFINE your beauty!!! Your HEART defines you're True beauty...

Going natural can very healthy for your hair.. Your scalp, your skin and your overall health.. It may be the best move you have ever make when it comes to caring for your Hair.

Get a support team-surround yourself with people and things that will “Love” your decision to go natural. Have a close friend who you can call- you will have those days when you want to give in!!!

Lastly- Be patient with yourself.. Hair grows and it takes time so try not to focus on it too much as it will frustrate you..

Questions to ask- Before Transitioning?

Before you enter into the battle field of “going natural” you must ask yourself many questions. Get out your computer, note pad etc.. and answer these questions to yourself and out loud..

Is Transitioning for me?

Am I ready?

Is this a good time for me to Transition?

Can I wear my hair in a bun for almost a year or two?

What other styles will I wear while am getting use to my “new growth”

Why do I want to Transition?

Of course you can add or take away from this list..

These were some of things I experienced and I am still dealing with.. Personally I have maybe another year.. before I go 100% natural..

Happy Healthy Hair Growing.. xoxo Anaiyah~

Saturday, January 2, 2010

2010 Hair Goals~

So officially 2010 is here.. wow another year is here already...
For all of us who are on our Hair Journey's we have to begin to realistically figure out; what would we like to accomplish in 2010!
One important thing to keep in mind is to set goals that are realistic...


If you have neck length hair it would be stressful for you to want waist length hair by the end of the year!!!
However, you may add more protective styles, or up your co-washing, or even trim your ends more!!!
Whatever you decide still have fun with it.. and take your time..

Here are some of my 2010 Hair Goals:-
Continue with my Transitioning Process a.k.a stay Chem free/Creamy Crack free
By August/Septmeber 2010 I want my hair to be at the top of my Waist..
I also, want to cut back on the heat so I plan a Summer 2010 Heat Free Stretch~
I also want to try some braid out styles.. hmmm
I may add or take away by the middle of year.. but the basis here is I have a good start .. :D

So Ladies and Gents what are some of your Hair Goals for 2010?
Please share.. Oh and All the best Happy Healthy Hair Growing.. no matter your goals.~

Remember patience is a virtue.. so take time with your self..

Anaiyah~

Thursday, November 12, 2009

Let's Talk Hair Routine....

Hi All,

First I want to Thank you ALL, for all the Love and Support…. You guys are Awesome!!!
After reading many of your comments and questions.. I realized I needed to make some things clearer for everyone. I have what you can call or should I say several routines; 2 or maybe 3 it depends on how am wearing my hair…

I am what you might call a LMD- Low Manipulation Diva…

Low Manipulation: - means not messing with your hair too much!!! This means you try not to blow dry, flat iron, sit under the dryer at all basically you stay away from all un-natural heat ....This is the time you try to up your co-washes, pre-poos and co-poos and you let your hair Air dry!!!! I know and Yes; I said to Leave your HAIR ALONE!!!!

The less you mess with your hair or manipulate your hair the more you will experience less shedding, breakage and split ends. How long you want to use the low manipulation technique is really all up too you. This can be from 2 weeks to as long as 6 months. It really depends on your lifestyle and what your hair needs at the time. I would suggest getting into a LM at least once or twice a year to start off.
This is the time you can rock the buns, twist outs, braids, braid outs, bantu-knots, wigs, afros and the list goes on... It is all up to you, the longer you can do this technique the healthier your hair will be.

As you have seen in my 2 videos on Co-washing 101 part 1 and 2 here I am showing you how to Co-wash so you can add it to your Low Manipulation Routine.

Personally this is working wonders for me and my hair as I have not been to my Salon since August of 09. Seeing that I am transitioning away from the texturizer chemical it makes even more sense for me to do this right now. I did however keep my routine trim; which I did myself easy peasy nice and cheesy :-D.. No, really it wasn't that difficult!

My hair right now is on what I like to call HCC ( hair cruise control)… I have taken a hiatus from the Salon, the dryer, the flat iron and any forms of heat just to give my hair some much needed breathing time and space..



My curly hair – Low Manipulation Routine is as follows:-

- Shampoo & DC 2x/month
- Light Protein 2x/week
- Co-wash 5x/week
- Moisturize & seal 5x/week
- 1 a month clarify shampoo
- Apply Mixed oil potion ( I created) to scalp 5x/week
- Pony tail braid or loose wild bun daily
- Trim ends every 6 to 8 weeks

However, when I do hit the salon which I try to do every 3-4 months; then my routine switches yet again!!! Wow, why you say 3-4 months because that sounds like a very long time..
Honestly, I really have come to the revelation that your hair needs to get a break from the heat and all the stuff we do to our hair….
Especially for me now that am I transitioning from the texturizer to my natural hair.. I am trying to challenge myself to stretch out going to the salon even more.

As far as my Salon Hair Routine it doesn’t matter the salon I always request the same treatment.. Trust me when I tell you I get a bit of a fight when I don’t use my own stylist..
But, I know what my hair likes and I make sure to give her what she needs..

****Side note.. Don’t let any stylist boss you around... You know your hair more than anyone else.. And if you don’t then you should get into a personal relationship with your Hair…. This rule should go for your entire being mind, body and soul but that's a whole other subject!

Trust me when I tell you I have had to learn this lesson the hard way and once I figured this out my hair began to flourish the way you see it now…
****Note: I also only let my trusted stylist or myself trim my ends as well.. I do this for my girls as well..


My Salon routine is simple as follows:-

- Shampoo
- Condition
- Deep Condition- (sit under the dryer for 15 minutes low heat)
- Rinse
- Blow dry
-Light scalp oil
-Flat iron
-Trim if needed and it falls with my 6 to 8 week time line

Now once my hair is in the straight style...I have to switch my routine yet again!!!!... So I take a break from the Co-washing and the curly hair routine with the buns and bantu-knots. This time frame I don’t wet my hair at all (while it’s straight) for as long as I can hold out which is usually around 2 1/2 weeks.

This has been the longest I have been able to stretch the straighten look out without wetting it the hair... wheeew.. The trick is I really try listen to my hair and see what it’s asking me for..
If its feeling dry then I know it’s time to stop the heat and get back onto the curly hair style routine this has been working for me for a few years now..



My Straight Hair Routine is as follows:- (
more like maintenance)

- Comb thru daily (using a wide teeth comb)
- Light sleek and shine anti frizz serum (Fructis)
- Silk wrap every night
- Silk pillow case (for sleeping, just an extra added bonus of silkiness)
-Light scalp oil (if scalp is looking dry)
- Flat iron (if needed to smooth hair out a bit)

That is pretty much how it works for me.. It is not written in stone that we should have one routine or one way of maintaining our hair. Its hair if you’re like me you will get bored with the same old same. However, while you make the switch you have to ensure your hair is getting the love and attention is needs.

I hope this helps~
All the best and Happy Hair Growing…. Anaiyah~

Sunday, November 8, 2009

One of many of My Hair Routines...


My curly Hair Routine is as follows:-


More than one routine is required..for more than one way of wearing your hair.. You got to be flexible and listen to what your hair is asking for..

More to come soon!!!

- Shampoo & DC 2x/month
- Light Protein 2x/week
- Co-wash 5x/week
- Moisturize & seal 5x/week
- 1 a month clarify shampoo
- Apply Mixed oil potion ( I created) to scalp 5x/week
- Pony tail braid or loose wild bun daily
- Trim ends every 6 to 8 weeks
- Post texturizer since February on 2009 ( I am transitioning- back to my roots.. lol)


Hope this helps..

Anaiyah~